In June, 2017, Cindy had an operation to remove cancer of the tongue. In late 2018, the cancer recurred in her neck; after an operation, radiation treatments and immunotherapy, she entered home hospice care in December and passed away January 5th. In lieu of emails, this blog will keep everyone informed on plans for celebrating her life.
Wednesday, January 15, 2020
Reston: January 15th
A
celebration of life will be held on Sunday, February 16th, from 2:30 to
5:30 in the Reston Community Center at
Lake Anne (1609 Washington Plaza North). The dress will be casual and you'll be invited to share memories. If you plan to attend, please let us know at van.foster @comcast.net or
703.437.3138. Please check this site periodically for any updates.
Monday, January 13, 2020
Reston: January 13th
Lucinda C. Foster 1940 - 2020
Cindy Foster, wife of Van Foster and mother of Dana and Lisa,
started cancer treatment in 2017, entered hospice at home in Reston in December
2019 and died peacefully on January 5th, 2020, at age 79. Her daughters and their families were able to
visit her at Thanksgiving and Christmas, which Cindy greatly enjoyed.
Cindy was born in Chevy Chase, MD, the youngest of five and
consequently the resilient one who raised herself. She attended Sidwell Friends School and Tufts University where she met Van. An
education major led to teaching elementary school in Connecticut, Fairfax and
Clark Air Base and retirement in 1995. But
after a few years she took up tutoring with a local charity (one child at a time
was a pleasure) for ten more years.
Van’s work included
three years in the Philippines where vacations included touring parts of East
Asia and a gamey road trip in northern Luzon.
On a two-year posting in Liberia, their 4WD Chevy Blazer took them to
Sierra Leone and Ivory Coast. Best was
probably the bush taxi ride from Bamako to Bandiagara and the Dogon
country.
She was a lifelong athlete in field hockey, tennis, swimming
and girls basketball (the latter in the “six-on- six” days when players were
limited to half court, which particularly rankled Cindy). Van took up racquetball after finding he was
no match for her in tennis.
Although the tennis faded with age, hiking, birdwatching and
quilting kept Cindy busy. Travelling was a itch first scratched when she and a Jackson classmate toured Europe in Cindy's new red VW the summer after graduation from Tufts. The itch didn’t fade and after retirement she and Van spent a cumulative 16 months living
in a VW camper while driving around Europe and the US; all told, they were away
from Reston about 40 percent of the time.
Her parents’ hilltop cabin in Maine played a big part in her
early life and inspired building a cabin on nearby Long Lake where she enjoyed
kayaking, snorkeling, skiing and poking around in the woods. In 2004, she achieved her life goal of
climbing all forty-seven 4,000 footers in the White Mountains.
During much of this, Cindy was also raising two wonderful
daughters who went on to careers and children of their own. She was immensely pleased to host
everyone at the cabin for several weeks each summer.
Cindy lived a full life and toward the end said she “was
ready”. That may be what fate called for
but, absent her cancer, she was headed for more adventures.
A celebration of life will be held on Sunday, February 16th, from 2:30 to 5:30 in the Reston Community
Center at Lake Anne (1609 Washington Plaza North). If you plan to attend, please let us know at van.foster@comcast.net or 703.437.3138.
Sunday, January 5, 2020
Reston: January 5th
Cindy passed away on Sunday, January 5th,
peacefully in her bed at home. The
hospice service had been invaluable in providing thrice-weekly nursing care,
pain management and sympathetic advice. Dana
was fortuitously able to remain in Reston after the family Christmas to help
with Cindy. With all the care, Cindy was
comfortable and pain-free to the end.
Cindy
got to experience a last joyous family Christmas in Reston including Lisa,
Morgan, Dana, Marc, and Lucy (Lisa’s husband John and son Jack couldn’t make it
when Jack got sick, and Dana’s stepson Zach was spending Christmas with his mother.)
Cindy particularly enjoyed watching the
tree get set up and decorated, and also loved opening her Christmas stocking
and presents.
Plans
for commemorating Cindy are gestating but will probably include an informal
celebration of life in Reston and a summer family ceremony in Maine.
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